I applaud Ben (similiar thread, link here : http://sogospelnews.com/index/forum/viewthread/1503/ & Sally. There has to be accountability. There is a big difference between “gossip” and “burdened with a heavy heart for someone”. II TIMOTHY 3:16 comes to mind : “All scripture is given by inspiration of GOD, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” Good words to live by.